Still Becoming · Week 10
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Brian Laughlin's message · Five weekday devotionals

Just Ask

Three faces from Japan and a God who is already at work. The whole lesson comes down to two words: just ask.

"How can they believe in him if they have never heard about him? And how can they hear about him unless someone tells them?"
Romans 10:14 · NLT
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Carolyn and I are home from Japan, and we felt every one of your prayers. Sunday we brought three faces back with us instead of a slideshow. Sarah, who felt God's love in a youth group as a teenager and waited years because nobody asked her. Mr. Yamada, who said yes to Jesus at a table where we were feeding people experiencing homelessness, and he was not the only one that day. Nozumu, who sat between two pastors at Kiseki Camp until three of us pulled him aside, sat down, and asked. All three are our brothers and sisters now. All the glory belongs to God.

The whole lesson came down to two words: Just ask. Not a program. Not a sermon. A chair, a question, and a God who is already at work in the person across from you.

The simple path is complete: read the passage, notice one truth, pray, and carry one phrase. Open Going Deeper when you want more Scripture. Open Marvel at This when you want one biblical connection. Missing a day does not put you behind.

This week the Going Deeper path follows a single thread: how the first believers asked. Andrew on Monday, a Samaritan woman on Tuesday, Philip and Cornelius on Wednesday, the twelve on Thursday, Levi's dinner table on Friday. None of them had training. Every one of them had a sentence. If you walk the thread, bring one sentence you found to your table on Sunday. We will start there.

If you are new to Becomers, welcome. Nobody is going to hand you a script or a quota. This week is about one person, one invitation, and the joy of watching God do what only He can do. If you have been a Becomer for forty years, ask the Holy Spirit for the name of one person who has felt the warmth of your life and never been asked.

The invitation is ready. The new series, Clothed with Power from on High, begins Sunday, October 4 at noon. Lunch at 11:50, teaching at noon, a table, a prayer, done by 1:30, in Irvine or on Zoom, and the book is free. Cards arrive next week. Until then, the ask is a link: becomers.net/clothed. Send it with three words of your own: Come with me.

01

Monday

Nobody Asked

Every Becomer Is a Minister
Read Romans 10:13-14 · NLT ↗
“Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved. But how can they call on him to save them unless they believe in him? And how can they believe in him if they have never heard about him? And how can they hear about him unless someone tells them?”

Sarah is one of the strongest believers we met in Japan. Thirty years in the country, married, two children, a woman of God you would want at your table. But when she was a teenager with a hard home and a reputation she did not earn, a church youth group invited her in. She felt welcome. She felt warmth. She felt what she later understood was the love of God. And not one person in that room ever asked her if she wanted to receive Jesus.

They loved her. They fed her. They let her belong. Nobody asked. She came to Christ years later, but not there and not then. Think of what those years could have held.

Paul writes salvation as a chain: call, believe, hear, someone. Every link is God's work except the last one, and God chose to put a human voice there on purpose. He did not have to. He could have written the gospel in the sky. Instead He put it in the mouths of ordinary people who love someone enough to say it out loud.

Belonging is not the same as being asked. Sunday you wrote a name on a card, or you meant to. Today, hold that name before God. You are not being asked to be an evangelist. You are being asked to be the someone.

Carry itBelonging is not the same as being asked.
Pray itFather, thank You that someone once told me. Give me courage and gentleness for the person You are placing on my heart, ____________.
Practice itWrite one name where you will see it all week. If you already wrote it Sunday, write it again somewhere you cannot miss.
Jesus-SightingNotice one person today who seems to belong but may never have been asked. Just notice. Pray for them by name.
Going Deeperoptional

Watch the first ask in John's Gospel. It took one sentence and a short walk.

  • John 1:35-42 — Andrew hears Jesus, finds his brother, says one sentence, and brings Simon to Jesus.
  • John 1:43-46 — Philip answers Nathanael's doubt with three words: “Come and see.”
  • Romans 10:14-17 — Faith comes from hearing, and hearing needs a messenger with beautiful feet.

Ask the text: What did Andrew know about Jesus when he went to find Simon? How much did he need?

Whole picture: John 1:35-51

Marvel at Thisoptional

Andrew is remembered in Scripture for one thing: he kept bringing people to Jesus. His brother in John 1, a boy with lunch in John 6, some Greeks in John 12. He never preaches a recorded sermon. He asks, and he brings.

Try this: When you think “I am not qualified,” answer with Andrew's résumé: “I found Him. Come and see.”

02

Tuesday

Saved by Believing

Formed by God's Word
A volunteer's open hands offering food and welcome at an evening table
Read Romans 10:9-10 · NLT ↗
“If you openly declare that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is by believing in your heart that you are made right with God, and it is by openly declaring your faith that you are saved.”

We were feeding people experiencing homelessness in Tokyo. Mr. Yamada was in the line and every sign was there. He was open, listening, asking questions, and I felt the Holy Spirit press on me: lead this man to Christ. One of the pastors with us said, kindly, “He is on his path.” He meant it with respect. Leave it. He is in process.

So I asked Mr. Yamada a different question. “What is stopping you?” He said he felt he needed to learn more first. And I told him what Paul tells us here. We are not saved by knowing enough. We are saved by believing. A humble heart, turned toward God, that admits it needs a Savior and is willing to follow Jesus. Mr. Yamada said yes! 


Later that same day in the rain, Mr. Yamada joined us to evangalize 

Sunday we read Romans 10:9-10 together out loud, because this is the whole script. You do not need a seminary degree. You need this passage and a willing mouth.

Notice the two verbs. Believe in your heart. Declare with your mouth. Faith is not a private feeling we keep to ourselves until we are sure. It is spoken. Mr. Yamada's yes was spoken, and a little later he was singing in the rain with a microphone in his hand.

Carry itSaved by believing, not by knowing.
Pray itLord Jesus, I believe in my heart and I say it with my mouth: You are Lord. Help me say it plainly to ____________.
Practice itRead Romans 10:9-10 aloud three times, until you could say it to someone without the page in front of you.
Jesus-SightingWhere did you hear someone say what they believe out loud today? Thank God for a spoken faith.
Going Deeperoptional

Follow a woman who had one sentence and a question, and watch what God did with it.

  • John 4:28-30 — She leaves her water jar and tells the whole village, “Come and see a man who told me everything I ever did.”
  • John 4:39-42 — Many believe because of her word, then say, “Now we believe because we have heard him ourselves.”
  • Acts 16:29-34 — A jailer asks what he must do; the answer is one sentence, and his whole household believes that night.

Ask the text: What did the Samaritan woman know for certain, and what did she leave as a question? Why did that still work?

Whole picture: John 4:1-42

Marvel at Thisoptional

The woman at the well had known Jesus for less than an hour. Her testimony was mostly a question: “Could he possibly be the Messiah?” God used an unfinished testimony to bring a village to a finished faith. You do not have to have all the answers to ask.

Try this: Write your testimony in one sentence that starts with “Jesus…” and ends before you run out of breath. That is enough to share.

03

Wednesday

You Need a Chair

Known by Our Love
Three friends sitting close together under lantern light at night
Read Acts 8:29-31 · NLT ↗
“The Holy Spirit said to Philip, ‘Go over and walk along beside the carriage.’ Philip ran over and heard the man reading from the prophet Isaiah. Philip asked, ‘Do you understand what you are reading?’ The man replied, ‘How can I, unless someone instructs me?’ And he urged Philip to come up into the carriage and sit with him.”

Nozumu is a young man whose sister had prayed for his salvation for a long time. Everyone at Kiseki Camp knew it. At one point he sat between two pastors for a good stretch of the evening. Nobody asked him. We were busy. The schedule was full. We were about to move on to the next thing and walk right past a door God had already opened.

So two of the young adults and I took him aside. It was not on the schedule. We sat down. We talked. We answered his questions. And we asked. Nozumu said yes, and he was saved at that camp. No better sermon. No better program. Three people who slowed down and sat down.

Look at the verbs in Acts 8. The Spirit said go. Philip ran. Philip asked. The man said, “How can I, unless someone.” Then he invited Philip to come up and sit with him. Go, run, ask, sit. Beat for beat, that is Nozumu's story. It even ends the same way: “Look, here is water. What can stand in the way?”

Philip was not on that desert road by schedule. An angel pulled him off the map for one man. The Holy Spirit is willing to interrupt your calendar for one person. Busy people walk past people. You don't need a sermon. You need a chair.

Carry itYou don't need a sermon. You need a chair.
Pray itHoly Spirit, interrupt my schedule this week. When You say go, help me run instead of reasoning. I give You my calendar and I give You ____________.
Practice itSit down with one person for ten unscheduled minutes today. Ask one real question and listen to the whole answer. If they are not reachable, sit down with God for those ten minutes and pray for them by name.
Jesus-SightingWhere did an interruption turn out to be an appointment?
Going Deeperoptional

Read the whole Philip story, then see what happens when the person who was asked gathers everyone he knows.

  • Acts 8:26-40 — An angel, a desert road, one man, one question, and water by the roadside.
  • Acts 10:24-33 — Cornelius sends for Peter, then fills his house with relatives and friends: “We are all here, waiting before God.”
  • Acts 10:44-48 — The Spirit falls on the whole room before Peter finishes his sentence.

Ask the text: In Acts 8 and Acts 10, who does the arranging and who does the asking? What is left for the human to do?

Whole picture: Acts 8

Marvel at Thisoptional

Philip was in the middle of a citywide revival in Samaria when the angel sent him to an empty road for one traveler. God counts one person as worth leaving a crowd for. That traveler carried the gospel to Africa.

Try this: The next time your plans get interrupted by a person, say silently, “Lord, is this the carriage?”

04

Thursday

It Starts with a Simple Ask

We Are Becoming
An older woman's hands holding a phone with a handwritten note nearby
Read Matthew 9:37-38 · NLT ↗
“He said to his disciples, ‘The harvest is great, but the workers are few. So pray to the Lord who is in charge of the harvest; ask him to send more workers into his fields.’”

Sunday we looked at a ladder. Rung four, ask the question: “Would you like to receive Jesus as your Lord?” Rung three, share His story. Rung two, share your story. Rung one, ask someone to come. Most of us stare at the top rung and say, “That is not me.” Fine. Nobody has to start at the top.

The ladder runs both directions. When you ask someone to come on October 4, they walk into a room where people tell their stories, where the gospel is read out loud, and where somebody at a table will eventually ask them the question. You do not have to climb the whole ladder. You have to get one person to the bottom rung. It starts with a simple ask.

Look at the verb Jesus uses. Ask. He tells the disciples to ask the Lord of the harvest for workers, and in the very next chapter He sends the same disciples out. The ones who prayed for workers became the workers. You prayed over a name on Sunday. You are the worker you prayed for.

The cards arrive next week. You do not have to wait for them. Today the invitation is a link and three words of your own. Send becomers.net/clothed to your one name and say, “Come with me.” That is rung one, and it is done.

Carry itIt starts with a simple ask.
Pray itLord of the harvest, You told us to ask You for workers, so I ask. And I hear You sending me. Give me the words for ____________ today.
Practice itSend the link to your one name today, by text, email, or a phone call, in your own words. If you need a start: “I'm part of a Sunday group called Becomers. We start a new study October 4, lunch at 11:50, teaching at noon, and the book is free. Come with me? Here's the page: becomers.net/clothed.”
Jesus-SightingWhere did a small ask open a bigger door today, for you or for someone else?
Going Deeperoptional

Watch the people who prayed for workers get sent as the workers.

  • Matthew 9:35-10:8 — Jesus sees the crowds, tells the disciples to ask for workers, then names and sends the twelve.
  • Luke 10:1-9 — Seventy-two ordinary followers are sent two by two with the same prayer and the same message.
  • 2 Corinthians 5:18-20 — God gave us the task of reconciling people to Him. We are Christ's ambassadors.

Ask the text: What did Jesus give the twelve before He sent them, and what did He not give them?

Whole picture: Matthew 10

Marvel at Thisoptional

The harvest is already great. Jesus does not tell the disciples to make the harvest; He tells them the harvest is waiting on workers. The shortage is never on God's side of the field.

Try this: Before you send the link, pray one line: “Lord, the harvest is Yours. Send me to this one.”

05

Friday

Asked People Ask People

Every Becomer Is a Minister · Known by Our Love
A family arriving through a doorway to a table set for a shared meal
Read Luke 5:27-32 · NLT ↗
“Later, Levi held a banquet in his home with Jesus as the guest of honor. Many of Levi's fellow tax collectors and other guests also ate with them.”

Somebody asked you once. A parent, a friend, a Sunday school teacher, a stranger on a plane. You are a Becomer because of it. Sarah waited years because nobody asked. Mr. Yamada said yes because somebody finally did. Nozumu said yes because three people sat down. Asked people ask people.

Notice what Levi does the moment Jesus says “Follow me.” He gets up, leaves everything, and throws a dinner party. His first act as a disciple is to fill a table with the people who knew him before, so they can meet the One who changed him. He does not preach to them. He seats them next to Jesus.

That is what October 4 is. A table. Lunch at 11:50, teaching at noon, honest conversation, prayer, and a free book. The easiest invitation you will ever make is not a sermon. It is a seat. “Come with me.”

This week we sent one link. Sunday we will hear how it went, and we will hear the sentences you found in the Going Deeper thread, from Andrew to Levi. Nobody has to report a yes. Asking is the whole assignment. God takes it from there, the way He did in Tokyo, the way He did at Kiseki Camp, the way He did with you.

Carry itAsked people ask people.
Pray itFather, thank You for the person who asked me. Make me that person for someone else. I bring You my one name again, ____________, and I trust You with the answer.
Practice itTell the person who first asked you, if they are still living, that you remember. Then bring one sentence from this week's reading to your table on Sunday. If you did not read the thread, bring the name you asked.
Jesus-SightingWhere did you see a seat get saved for someone this week?
Going Deeperoptional

End the thread at a table. Jesus describes His kingdom as a full house and tells His people to go fill it.

  • Luke 14:15-23 — The master says, “Urge anyone you find to come, so that the house will be full.”
  • Luke 15:1-7 — Heaven throws a party over one person who comes home.
  • Revelation 22:17 — The Spirit and the bride say, “Come.” Anyone who hears it is told to say it too.

Ask the text: In Luke 14, why does the house still have room, and whose job is it to fill it?

Whole picture: Luke 5:27-39

Marvel at Thisoptional

The last invitation in the Bible is “Come,” and the very next line hands the word to whoever hears it. Scripture ends the way this week began: with an ask, passed from one person to the next.

Try this: Say the last word of the Bible's invitation out loud once today, to God or to a person: “Come.”

The Ladder

Sunday's lesson gives us four rungs, and nobody has to start at the top:

The ladder runs both directions. Get one person to the bottom rung, and the table takes it from there.

Go Deeper Together

This week's Going Deeper thread is one story told five times: Andrew, the woman at the well, Philip and Cornelius, the twelve, and Levi's table. Read all five if you can. Then answer one question with a Bible, a piece of paper, or a friend: What did every one of them have, and what did none of them need?

Bring one sentence to your table on Sunday. If you did not read the thread, bring the name you asked. Either one opens the table.

Final Prayer

Lord of the harvest, thank You for the person who asked us. Thank You for Sarah, whose story reminds us that belonging is not the same as being asked. Thank You for Mr. Yamada and for the brother who said yes beside him. Thank You for Nozumu and for the three who sat down. Holy Spirit, interrupt our schedules. Give us Andrew's sentence, the Samaritan woman's question, Philip's run, and Levi's table. Put one name on each of our hearts and one link in each of our hands, and go ahead of us to the person we are asking. The harvest is Yours. The saving work is Yours. All the glory is Yours. Amen.

Final Declaration

Somebody asked me.
I am the worker I prayed for.
I don’t need a sermon. I need a chair.
One name. One ask. Come with me.
Asked people ask people.
Amen.